Day Nineteen
#WaitingOnWednesday
This Nineteenth day of November brings us to what we're #WaitingOn...or waiting sort of patiently to be released so we can devour it. Makes complete sense right...wait that long on a book, and can't stop reading until it's 4 am with a finished book. Sigh. That is the best.
I'm sharing three I'm waiting on with you fine folks today.
1) Better When He's Bold by Jay Crownover
While I'm not uber-crazy about this cover, unfortunately, the first book in the series was AWESOME! So...I will be waiting to find out what sort of shenanigans we get up to in this one. They're going to be crazy, I can just tell you that right now.
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2) 'Til Death by Bella Jewel
With a line like "I married a douchebag" in the blurb...we knew we wanted to read this one....and it is coming up in our lineup very very very soon. CAN'T WAIT!
Goodreads | Pre-Order on Amazon for only 99 cents!
3) Ride Steady by Kristen Ashley (Chaos Series #3)
Ride Steady is so far in my future, it doesn't even have a cover yet. But never fear, I will wait with bated breath for this book, because the CHAOS MC is like kryptonite. I definitely will be pulling an all nighter, or most-of-the-nighter to get my hands on this book! Girl knows how to write about badass bikers better than anyone that I enjoy reading about...so, Joker. Bring it on.
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1) Anything Tiffany Reisz. She writes smart characters. I've not read all of her books but I've very much enjoyed everything I've read of hers...so I'm actually not necessarily waiting on her newest..just waiting on time to catch up with some of the older titles so that I can get to her newest one. Girl, I agree. I loved that novella series of hers we read, and can't wait to get more of Nora + especially Kingsley. I'm on Team Kingsley.
2) Black Iris by Leah Raeder.
This one promises to give me the diversity and prose that I've been waiting for and I know Leah is going to blow me out of the water with it; can't wait.
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3) After Dark by M. Pierce.
What can I say--M had me from book Night Owl and I'm so damn curious as to what will happen at the end of this trilogy.
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Wednesday, November 19, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo: #WaitingOnWednesday
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Tuesday, November 18, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo: Favorite Sub-Genres - Day Eighteen
Day Eighteen
Favorite Sub-Genres
While we love reading pretty much anything, it is well known I would think at this point that we focus primarily on Romance novels on this blog.
My favorite Romance sub-genres are:
Dark Romance - especially it seems dark erotica. Very dark and twisty themes, with people who are completely fucked in the head by some past experience. Sign me up.
Contemporary Companion Series'- if you tell me Kristen Ashley has a series of eight books centering about a certain group of people...I could probably read them in a VERY short amount of time..Hello, Rock Chick. Point is, companion novels make me their bitch, often.
Our love of bikers, and rockers as previously referenced, or mine anyways, definitely leads us to Romantic Suspense...which probably includes everything above...but, yeah. Guys meets girl, and there is something to solve giving even more depth to the story. Heck yes.
I like all of these and I love to laugh when I read; I'm naturally emo-ish so when I can read something that makes me laugh, I'm all about it. Kristen Ashley does the best Romantic Suspense + Comedy + Sexiness (hence using her as my comfort reads).
I also like literary fiction. This is what I do in my day job and I love when I come across something that we can do on the blog that it's a little different than we normally do.
But, I'll read anything (even the back of a shampoo bottle).
Monday, November 17, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo: Favorite Book Tropes - Day Seventeen
Day Seventeen
Favorite Book Tropes
My all time favorite tropes have to be about bikers, rockers, and for some reason really rich CEO's.
Does that make me shallow?
Probably. But the story does seem to go better when they're not fighting tooth and nail to get by. Real life seems to do that to us. I mean, don't get me wrong, each angst ridden story has it's ups and downs, but sometimes the best trope is when it is an external conflict instead of internal between the two main characters.
Bikers - my favorite brand of biker by Kristen Ashley. She set my gold standard for those burly guys...and made them super hot. #RideFree bae.
Rockers - I have no artistic talent whatsoever, so I LOVE stories about people who do. Music is my next love after writing, and I really wish I had went into PR so I could have gotten hired as a personal assistant to a rock star at some point. (Though, living in the midwest probably hindered this plan more than my chosen career path of nursing...)
Rich CEO's - C'mon. Love it, or hate it, (though I kind of loved it) Fifty Shades helped put erotica on the map of success. I can't even explain to you why I love these so much, but I will read it every single time that Shel says, "Hey, what about this one?"
This is going to sound like I'm trying to cheat--but I swear I'm not...I really don't care. I'm becoming more interested in seeing more diverse characters in my fiction. I'd like my immersion into another world to include more variety--more color, more sexually diverse characters, and a variety of storylines. Other than that, I want good writing. I'll follow you anywhere if you write the hell out of your book.
Favorite Book Tropes
My all time favorite tropes have to be about bikers, rockers, and for some reason really rich CEO's.
Does that make me shallow?
Probably. But the story does seem to go better when they're not fighting tooth and nail to get by. Real life seems to do that to us. I mean, don't get me wrong, each angst ridden story has it's ups and downs, but sometimes the best trope is when it is an external conflict instead of internal between the two main characters.
Bikers - my favorite brand of biker by Kristen Ashley. She set my gold standard for those burly guys...and made them super hot. #RideFree bae.
Rockers - I have no artistic talent whatsoever, so I LOVE stories about people who do. Music is my next love after writing, and I really wish I had went into PR so I could have gotten hired as a personal assistant to a rock star at some point. (Though, living in the midwest probably hindered this plan more than my chosen career path of nursing...)
Rich CEO's - C'mon. Love it, or hate it, (though I kind of loved it) Fifty Shades helped put erotica on the map of success. I can't even explain to you why I love these so much, but I will read it every single time that Shel says, "Hey, what about this one?"
This is going to sound like I'm trying to cheat--but I swear I'm not...I really don't care. I'm becoming more interested in seeing more diverse characters in my fiction. I'd like my immersion into another world to include more variety--more color, more sexually diverse characters, and a variety of storylines. Other than that, I want good writing. I'll follow you anywhere if you write the hell out of your book.
Sunday, November 16, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo: Least Favorite Thing About Book Blogging - Day Sixteen
Day Sixteen
Least Favorite Thing About Book Blogging
You'll see me bitch about this until the end of time, but non-prepared posts. If I sign up for a tour...and someone is being PAID by an author to organize this type of exposure...it would be very nice to not have to look up any of the information be it: cover, blurb, author info, author links, and buy links. It takes up so much time, and may I remind the tour peeps...they're being paid for it. We are not. Courtesy, please.
/rant
Sorry. Okay, this wasn't probably intended to be a bitch fest. So I should probably just shut up. But, that is a biggy. And no html posts. That is saddening too sometimes. And...not receiving information until really late at night before the post is to go live the next day.
Along those exact same lines, building posts for the blog when they aren't sent properly is super annoying and time consuming.
I also hate when I have to send an email to a writer saying that his or her novel didn't work for us. I know how hard it is to put your writing out in public and I hate to disappoint, but at the same time, I will not promote via review a novel I don't like.
Least Favorite Thing About Book Blogging
You'll see me bitch about this until the end of time, but non-prepared posts. If I sign up for a tour...and someone is being PAID by an author to organize this type of exposure...it would be very nice to not have to look up any of the information be it: cover, blurb, author info, author links, and buy links. It takes up so much time, and may I remind the tour peeps...they're being paid for it. We are not. Courtesy, please.
/rant
Sorry. Okay, this wasn't probably intended to be a bitch fest. So I should probably just shut up. But, that is a biggy. And no html posts. That is saddening too sometimes. And...not receiving information until really late at night before the post is to go live the next day.
Along those exact same lines, building posts for the blog when they aren't sent properly is super annoying and time consuming.
I also hate when I have to send an email to a writer saying that his or her novel didn't work for us. I know how hard it is to put your writing out in public and I hate to disappoint, but at the same time, I will not promote via review a novel I don't like.
Saturday, November 15, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo: Favorite Things About Book Blogging - Day Fifteen...better late than never!
Day Fifteen
Favorite Book Blogging Things
It is very difficult to think of the best parts of blogging, but probably telling people that I blog is a top 5. It is an interesting reaction, ya know, telling people that you've read 175 books this year, and their eyes kind of bug. Or that you read about 280 last year. Definitely bug. That makes me smile. I don't think people think they have the time to read, but I like letting them know that yes, you do. This is something I do for myself that gives me great joy, so that is a favorite.
Connecting with authors...or for instance right now on Twitter a group of girls are reading the same book. I too am reading this book, but definitely not doing as great at Twitter as my ninja partner is, that #hashtag quote queen over there. It is fun to watch, and definitely as I'm reading this epically strange book (I mean, shit it is weird!) the writing is fantastic, and I am very excited to start recommending it...and I've only read about 12%.
The other is seeing people succeed in this business. I aspire to write, but until I get myself sat down and actually finish what I am writing...I will be the best cheerleader ever for everyone else!! I LOVE (you have no idea how much) seeing books we've read and reviewed at the start as indie authors, and then they're in Target, B+N or Wal-Mart, and I gush like it is my own success. It makes me happy to see a baby book grow into something people nationwide can buy. Very excited.
Anyways, what type of things do you like about blogging Shel!
I enjoy connecting with other readers and bloggers and exchanging ideas or debating the merits of something; it's probably also why I like teaching so much. Haha.
I also love being introduced to really good writing and writers--it's fascinating, this whole writing process, and I love when I find writing that's fresh or new OR when a writer is willing to be open with his or her fans and shares tidbits of the writing process or background.
And of course, reading. I love escaping into new worlds and reading offers me the chance to do that.
Favorite Book Blogging Things
It is very difficult to think of the best parts of blogging, but probably telling people that I blog is a top 5. It is an interesting reaction, ya know, telling people that you've read 175 books this year, and their eyes kind of bug. Or that you read about 280 last year. Definitely bug. That makes me smile. I don't think people think they have the time to read, but I like letting them know that yes, you do. This is something I do for myself that gives me great joy, so that is a favorite.
Connecting with authors...or for instance right now on Twitter a group of girls are reading the same book. I too am reading this book, but definitely not doing as great at Twitter as my ninja partner is, that #hashtag quote queen over there. It is fun to watch, and definitely as I'm reading this epically strange book (I mean, shit it is weird!) the writing is fantastic, and I am very excited to start recommending it...and I've only read about 12%.
The other is seeing people succeed in this business. I aspire to write, but until I get myself sat down and actually finish what I am writing...I will be the best cheerleader ever for everyone else!! I LOVE (you have no idea how much) seeing books we've read and reviewed at the start as indie authors, and then they're in Target, B+N or Wal-Mart, and I gush like it is my own success. It makes me happy to see a baby book grow into something people nationwide can buy. Very excited.
Anyways, what type of things do you like about blogging Shel!
I enjoy connecting with other readers and bloggers and exchanging ideas or debating the merits of something; it's probably also why I like teaching so much. Haha.
I also love being introduced to really good writing and writers--it's fascinating, this whole writing process, and I love when I find writing that's fresh or new OR when a writer is willing to be open with his or her fans and shares tidbits of the writing process or background.
And of course, reading. I love escaping into new worlds and reading offers me the chance to do that.
Friday, November 14, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo: Day Fourteen: Our Rating System
Day Thirteen
Our Review rating system
Sooooo, we have a rating system in our minds...but don't necessarily have it posted anywhere, because I haven't found a really cute particular "pic" to go with it. There is a blog I read that has the cutest little reading chair as hers, and I really want something like that...but alas, no bueno so far.
Anyways, I rate mostly based off purely emotional feel to it, even if the writing is...meh. Well, I used to. these days..HECK NO, WE WON'T GO...do not pass go, if I am not hooked, it will get a dnf faster than you can blink...simply because I have close to 1,000 books on my kindle, and not enough time in the day to read everything I want to read, let alone something that I don't like. (Sorry for that massive run on sentence, but I use commas a lot when I am feeling particularly passionate about something!).
I on occasion if something is a cross between like/love will do half star ratings, but tend to find reviews that are either 6 stars, of 3.6...or even 3.2 a bit ridiculous. WHERE in the world do you come up with that I ask? And if you're one of those people, I don't mean to offend, but I won't be doing that.
For Court: 5 Stars - IT IS AMAZING, READ THIS NOW!!! NOW, I SAY!
4 Stars - IT IS PRETTY DANG GOOD...I HIGHLY RECOMMEND. MINOR FLAWS, DID NOT TAKE AWAY FROM THE BOOK.
3 Stars - I LIKED IT. RECOMMEND IT, BUT THERE MIGHT BE MORE THAN 5 THINGS THAT COULD BE BETTER FOR ME
2 Stars - IT WAS OK. I MAY NOT BASH IT, BUT I PROBABLY WON'T RECOMMEND IT TO MY FRIENDS
1 Stars - I EITHER DISLIKED A LOT, OR DID NOT FINISH. WE'LL PRETEND THAT I DIDN'T READ THAT.
I'm actually starting to not rate books unless I have to. I know for certain sites, they want a rating and I'll give one if I must..but I guess I'm starting to feel that books are more complicated and complex, many times, to give it a number rating. This is a new thing with me and I may revert back to number ratings at some point, but for now this feels right.
Thursday, November 13, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo: Day Thirteen: Our Review Process
Day Thirteen:
Our Review Process
Do we review right away? When? How? Etc?!
The goal for writing my review is always, always, always doing it as soon as possible so I don't get details confused about what I want to say about a book. The reality is that sometimes I sort of wait until the last minute to write my review before it it scheduled to post, mostly because I am also reading at the last minute before we plan to review something. In my perfect world, again, I would love to be a month ahead and have reviews ready to go for days and days and days. But, alas, no...these wishes are for naught.
I TRY to stay a week or two ahead of what we're supposed to read--TRY to--but it depends on how sidetracked I get with work, life, or other things I'm reading. I tend to write my reviews as soon as I finish, if it's at all possible, because I want to capture what I am feeling in that moment. If I wait too long, I tend to lose the excitement or thoughts I had.
Writing our reviews is a collective, conversation process. We used to write separate full reviews...but that really wasn't working for us, so we've changed to the more dual format and really enjoy it. Hopefully you do too!
I enjoy the process we have now--it's fun to bounce ideas off of one another but I won't lie, sometimes I miss when we were reading at the same time because it just amped up the reading that much more. But, life has a way of making things crazy so for now, it is what it is.
As with everything on this blog, as our lives and ideas shift, I'm sure the way we review will too--I can almost guarantee it.
Wednesday, November 12, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo: Day Twelve: Advice to Newbie Bloggers
Day Twelve...advice for newbies!
If you're like us, once you become what some might call a "power" reader, which I think is if you read over 100 books a year...or that is my personal definition of it...you probably will think "I totally should blog about this!"
My advice...think long and hard about it. Not that we would want to dissuade anyone from jumping in this crazy online world, but it can be hard. Hard to think of a blog name that isn't too close to someone else's so that they feel like you've stolen from then, hard to pick a template (see last reason..) hard to pick which posts you think people will like, hard not to seem like you're spamming people with the information that you got REALLY excited about, and they're like...yo, girl. Chill.
My other advice, that I think has helped us, and we say this over and over and over...be who you want to be. If you want to exclusively blog about books, do that...exclusively review only sporadically, do that...post once a day, once a week, or even once a month, do that...but it definitely goes without saying, again...be yourself, and that will make you the happiest. Book bullies come and go from both authors, bloggers, and readers...and either we've avoided it well, or we just don't engage with people that post crazy things, but I hope that I never have to encounter first hand some of the things that other people say happen to them. It is kind of cray cray!
And Shel touched on this in another post through this book blog wri mo thing, HAVE A PARTNER. It is really, really difficult if you've got plans to do something, and forgot a blog thing. For instance, I went to Florida with family...they're kind of anti-anything-to-do-with-courtney's-time-to-herself, so little blogging got done...shel had that. Shel went out of the country, I sort of kind of, mostly had it! Haha. We have each other's backs, we vent, we cry, we laugh, and we loved...and I can't go a day without my blog partner, or really without the blog.
Gosh, Court covered most of what I'd suggest. Maybe the only other thing I'd suggest is not to be afraid to change something if it's not working or if you are ready to try something different. At the end of the day it's YOUR blog, so make it what you want.
And remember to enjoy it. It's easy to get caught up in the crazy pace of this, so step back and enjoy.
If you're like us, once you become what some might call a "power" reader, which I think is if you read over 100 books a year...or that is my personal definition of it...you probably will think "I totally should blog about this!"
My advice...think long and hard about it. Not that we would want to dissuade anyone from jumping in this crazy online world, but it can be hard. Hard to think of a blog name that isn't too close to someone else's so that they feel like you've stolen from then, hard to pick a template (see last reason..) hard to pick which posts you think people will like, hard not to seem like you're spamming people with the information that you got REALLY excited about, and they're like...yo, girl. Chill.
My other advice, that I think has helped us, and we say this over and over and over...be who you want to be. If you want to exclusively blog about books, do that...exclusively review only sporadically, do that...post once a day, once a week, or even once a month, do that...but it definitely goes without saying, again...be yourself, and that will make you the happiest. Book bullies come and go from both authors, bloggers, and readers...and either we've avoided it well, or we just don't engage with people that post crazy things, but I hope that I never have to encounter first hand some of the things that other people say happen to them. It is kind of cray cray!
And Shel touched on this in another post through this book blog wri mo thing, HAVE A PARTNER. It is really, really difficult if you've got plans to do something, and forgot a blog thing. For instance, I went to Florida with family...they're kind of anti-anything-to-do-with-courtney's-time-to-herself, so little blogging got done...shel had that. Shel went out of the country, I sort of kind of, mostly had it! Haha. We have each other's backs, we vent, we cry, we laugh, and we loved...and I can't go a day without my blog partner, or really without the blog.
Gosh, Court covered most of what I'd suggest. Maybe the only other thing I'd suggest is not to be afraid to change something if it's not working or if you are ready to try something different. At the end of the day it's YOUR blog, so make it what you want.
And remember to enjoy it. It's easy to get caught up in the crazy pace of this, so step back and enjoy.
Tuesday, November 11, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo: Day Eleven: #TopTenTuesday...eerrr, or FIVE
So, our google page only collects the top FIVE most popular posts, and while I can probably find more stats, my brain hurts, so I'm going with FIVE!
Top Five MOST VIEWED Posts on our blog!
The Top Numero Uno spot goes to the This Man Trilogy by Jodi Ellen Malpas. We LOVED THIS SERIES so much, and it is clear so did a lot of other people, because it is pretty much the top viewed post every single day, and has over 11,000 views alone on the blog. Lord Jesse and his shenanigans seriously get people twitterpated or something. Need me one of those! Such a fun series!
Coming in Second is our Summer Reading Saturday post from Summer of 2013 regarding our most beloved Alpha Males. We love these boys something fierce, and clearly so do you. Maybe we should have a page dedicated to those men, hhmm? What say you? People love their alphas, don't they?!
Third for the word. (Okay, sorry, that was really corny) TEAM DICK Bonus Scene from A.J. Sand. That book Documentary ya know that started our friendship out with a bang...well, A.J. was so kind to let us post an exclusive excerpt from it involving Dylan and Kai, dubbed Team Dick. Hilarious nickname, beloved book. Yay, for Team Dick still being a heavy hitter for us a lonnnnng while later!Best team name ever!
Fourth, and I don't have anything clever that goes with FOUR! is our 2,000 Facebook Like Giveaway. Y'all seriously seem to love the crap out of giveaways, and we made sure to do a pretty good one for that particular milestone. We need to and will try to somehow finagle it together and get some more giveaways out there! LUCKILY for you, we like to post features for authors who are definitely generous givers so there are always giveaways going on around here.Can't believe we have followers, to this day--still can't believe it!
Fifth, or if you're not first you're last...I kid, I kid. lol. A Darkhorse! The Release Day Blitz for Hardline! Meredith Wild seems to have a gem in The Hacker Series so it is definitely one we want to check out ASAP! Because all of you are checking it out, and we don't like being not in the know, ya know.I can't wait to start this series.
Anyways! Hope you enjoy some of these oldie but goodie posts, and remember...if it doesn't look right...it is because Court is a dork and deleted half the photos by accident. Constant work in progress, over here, y'all.
Third for the word. (Okay, sorry, that was really corny) TEAM DICK Bonus Scene from A.J. Sand. That book Documentary ya know that started our friendship out with a bang...well, A.J. was so kind to let us post an exclusive excerpt from it involving Dylan and Kai, dubbed Team Dick. Hilarious nickname, beloved book. Yay, for Team Dick still being a heavy hitter for us a lonnnnng while later!Best team name ever!
Fourth, and I don't have anything clever that goes with FOUR! is our 2,000 Facebook Like Giveaway. Y'all seriously seem to love the crap out of giveaways, and we made sure to do a pretty good one for that particular milestone. We need to and will try to somehow finagle it together and get some more giveaways out there! LUCKILY for you, we like to post features for authors who are definitely generous givers so there are always giveaways going on around here.Can't believe we have followers, to this day--still can't believe it!
Fifth, or if you're not first you're last...I kid, I kid. lol. A Darkhorse! The Release Day Blitz for Hardline! Meredith Wild seems to have a gem in The Hacker Series so it is definitely one we want to check out ASAP! Because all of you are checking it out, and we don't like being not in the know, ya know.I can't wait to start this series.
Anyways! Hope you enjoy some of these oldie but goodie posts, and remember...if it doesn't look right...it is because Court is a dork and deleted half the photos by accident. Constant work in progress, over here, y'all.
Monday, November 10, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo : Day Ten : Memes we Meme...or used to meme.
Day Ten #BookBlogWriMo
Memes we meme...
I think, if you're following along, or even new to this blog or this thread...you will be sadly disappointed by our meme doing.
We used to be the Queens of Memes...doing one pretty much every single, fracking day of the week.
Now...I'm not sure that we really do anything that could be labeled as such.
"Why?" you ask? Well, we talk a lot about real life, and how much it hinders our blogging time, and brain power...and that is definitely the case here. We used to have a LOT of fun doing TTT or Texting + Talking Tuesdays, where we would post our reading shenanigans and back and forth angst while we read. I miss doing that, but that post took a lot of time and energy. And Swoon Thursdays...we love swooning...but again...time. I ask myself, how did I used to be able to get all of this stuff done! I don't really know, but I'm hoping that I will find even an inkling of that energy again! You know what? I miss TTT --that was my favorite and one day I know we'll resume it. The others didn't always feel right for us, though. It's like we were trying to find our niche and we began to discover what wasn't us, or didn't make us happy doing it...and since this is a full time job without pay--we must be happy doing it or it's NOT worth it. So my prediction is that in the future we'll go back to TTT, we just have to get on the same reading page, first.
Thanks y'all! See you tomorrow!
Sunday, November 9, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo Day Nine: #BlogFlow
Day Nine = our Blogging Workflow - #BlogFlow
Boy. Blogging flooowwwww. Most of the time, it really doesn't feel like it flows as more than it is like riding in the back of an old pick up truck on the bumpiest red gravel dirt road in Arkansas (the one I grew up on specifically...it's quite bad!) and if you have ever done that the feeling is exhilarating, but somewhat scary as driving too fast unrestrained in a car can be.
What was the point of all that nonsense you ask? Well...that's how blogging can be sometimes. Fun. Exciting. But sometimes the breakneck speed in which we have to do it because of the rest of our real life responsibilities can make it seem daunting as hell...or as daunting as getting the materials for a post you're excited about at 10:53 pm the night before it is to go live....Yes. All of this is true. And accurate and our lives.
Usually, I guess I would say my main focus when I log on to the e-mail is to see if there are any posts to build. I then move on to the reviews that have went live, and work on posting them to my goodreads page, and the Amazon website, or Netgalley if the book came from there. THEN, I like to keep the three books we're currently reading or about to read on the site, so I update the covers that link to the goodreads page. I have my blog hours broken up throughout the day and evening. My first job is to get our posts out on social media and comb through sales to post to the world. A little later I sift through emails and schedule things or help build posts or write reviews. And then, I update our reviews. And then? I read.
All of this is usually late at night, and usually in a Zombie Courtney phase, so I am quite surprised it gets done as accurately as it does. When Shel tells you her work flow...you will be so freaking impressed because she does so much more for me than I probably do for her, but I am hoping that maybe someday I'll have less "drama in trauma" (trauma surgeon nurse) and can devote more time to being a bloggy ninja during the day to surprise her when she gets home! Psssh. Court does a shitton--couldn't do what we do without her web know-how.
Oh, and then there is the reading and actually reviewing of books. We like to stay at least a week ahead on our reading, and our ultimate life goal is to get about a month ahead, so the speed isn't so break neck...but alas, I am unfortunately, usually only about 2-3 days ahead of the calendar. That calendar is my life man. Keeps me afloat!! I am forever trying to organize our reviews by genre, and post our 4 and 5 star reviews somewhere easy to find. It is a work in progress that has lasted most of the year...so...that is definitely one project I need to make time for again! Yes, I try to work a week or two ahead on our reads, if at all possible, which means trying to get 2-3 novels in a week (if not more!). As we continue to grow and learn, I suspect this will all change, but for now,it works.
Saturday, November 8, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo DAY EIGHT: Our Blog Tool Kit...or something!
#BookBlogWriMo #DayEight brings us to our blogging tool kit...what we like to do to make our bloggy lives easier.
Ummm, this one is hard to pin down in one little post. Especially right now when my brain is epically fried! But we'll try.
I think what I like best, is html. That is the best in anyone's arsenal is to pick tour posts, if you are going to tour, that send html files for building posts. I see word on the street now and again that some blogs are deleted by blogger or wordpress for using html, and I hope that isn't true. To combat that...or I hope that we're combatting that because we've been doing it for nearly two years, is to tweak each individual post after it is saved so that changes are made. The problem I think, is that if blogger thinks you're spamming people it will delete you. The key is to NOT spam! Hah! So, that is my take anyways.
HTML posts were the best thing invented. FOR REAL. It allows us to concentrate more on reviewing or tweaking a post than trying to hunt down information or photos or reformat things, etc. So I LOVE html.
I also love, love, love the schedule feature. Blogging made easier is by preparing as much as possible in advance of what you want to say and when you want to say it, so my advice SCHEDULE-SCHEDULE-SCHEDULE! We accidentally found our how to do this one day, when I thought went to save a cover reveal and instead "published" it on the date I scheduled. We had been trying to figure it out for a while before that, and there were many a morning that we got up at 5 am to get everything posted before the early morning deadlines. I must say that nothing will give you a heart attack more than thinking you had released a cover of a book earlier than you were supposed to. Whew.
Yes. Being able to schedule things ahead of time is wonderful; especially because Court and I are walking zombies half the time; this feature allows us to work ahead as much as possible.
My third thing that I feel is the most important probably in this whole toolkit thing, is to be the blogger and build your blog into what YOU want it to be. Shelley and I have had probably hundreds of conversations regarding this seemingly simple topic. It is easy to get bullied in the world of social media, and absolutely buried in requests for review and promotion and all of the other things that go along with book blogging, all while being the cornerstones of our families and holding full time (plus some) jobs. I think we've found a balance in trying to help out as many authors as we can, read the books WE WANT TO READ! and hopefully continue to make friends along the way while remembering why we started blogging in the first place. We wanted something that was our own. We wanted to share books we really enjoyed, and enjoy them with our fellow reader. Just be you, be epic, and it will all fall into place.
We've definitely had challenges and been sucked in to trying to be everything to everybody but I think we've made progress and I think we'll continue to adjust until this thing is exactly what we want it to be--something we love.
I'd add to Court's list--a calendar. We have a calendar that we both use and keeps us on task and on a reading schedule--otherwise we'd be lost. We've color coded it for different types of posts and it's a life saver, for sure.
Lastly, I'd say that having people you like to work with (or love to work with--COURT!) is hugely important. There are times when one of us is overwhelmed with life and work and the other person steps in and takes over and with the volume of mail and things we want to do here, it's absolutely necessary to have a partner (or partners) you can work with, whom you respect, and can communicate honestly with. I'm lucky; I have Court.
Friday, November 7, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo - #FlashbackFriday: Blog's First Design
#FlashbackFriday – Blog’s First Design(or for us, Designs, plural)
So, when this particular snap shot was taken, I had went through this problem where I had uploaded all of my personal photos to my Google cloud...thus erasing the URL from my computer...as you can see...any photo that I had added was deleted...devastation ensured. Now, definitely regret that happening, but wow look how BLANK the blog was!!
Then, here we are at about seven months into blogging. I really liked this profile, and THANK THE HEAVEN'S ABOVE, that my Sunshine, Shels, has a husband that is a computer programmer. I messed the code up to all kinds of hell...and it was not a fun night. Thanks for being a good sport, J!
Which, brings us to now....#BlackandWhite...because as we are avid Neighbourhood fans...we like this one. And as I am ever changing my manic mind, I am sure to be changing this sometime soon! Hah!
All I have to say is--thank goodness for Courtney and her infinite patience with teaching me how to do this and my husband for not killing us when things go terribly wrong.
Thursday, November 6, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo DAY SIX: THROWBACK THURSDAY (FAVORITE CHILDHOOD BOOKS)
#BookBlogWriMo has now brought us to DAY SIX! Are you still with us! Can you believe that WE are still with us. Yeah, me neither! So, anyways...today is a feature about our favorite Childhood books...aka #throwbackthursday y'all!
How shall we do this? Just chatterbox-ing away? Okay! So, numero uno on the list would have to be The Harry Potter Series. I started reading this series in the 5th grade (wow, still can't believe that either!) when the first four books were done. THEN...I can remember the last one didn't come out until I was a senior in highschool, or the summer before I think (circa 2007). The movies started coming out when I was in the 7th grade. And, also didn't finish until I was 22 (in 2011) and I remember this vividly because I actually got to watch it at the Graumann Theatre in Hollywood. Talk about epic coolness. Probably so cool that I have used up the rest of the cool points I was allotted in my 20's by the universe I think.
I could go on and on all night about Harry Potter and how much they mean to me, but I think I should try to think of at least one more!
To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee, Romeo + Juliet by William Shakespeare, A Tale of Two Cities by Charles Dickens, and The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck are also (as Shelley will probably cringe) required reading in high school. But they've stuck with me, and I keep meaning to make a bookish post for the blog about how nostalgic I am about these books, and how much I feel I understand the plot and writing and entire book now as I am older, and how these are most definitely wasted on the youth...(yeah, we all sparknoted the shit out of these for tests...but eventually I got them read!). My worry now though is...if I read it again, will my understanding ruin my feelings for the book itself, because the nostalgic attachment I have to it is what makes me feel so strongly in the first place? I need to test this theory, but I am scared. I don't want to lose the love I hold dearly in my heart for any of these...and I'm afraid if I burst the bubble the feeling will be gone forever.
The first series that hooked me on reading was the Nancy Drew series; I could (and would) inhale those books in mere hours. This set me on a course of being a serial reader--Sweet Valley High..is one I recall..among others. It's probably a shame to say, but I don't know that I actually had ONE favorite from my childhood. Rather, I just loved to escape into the world of books--whatever that world was. I suppose in many ways I'm still like that. I have a few that I'd go back and read but since my job is to do that with my students many times a day, for many years, I tend to grab new books and plunge myself into that new world.
(also, I've yet to read the Harry Potter series--please don't kill me..I was older when they came out (and busy) and I've yet to pick them up. One day, I will. I swear.)
Wednesday, November 5, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo Day Five: Where We Blog
Day Five is comprised of "Where We Blog"
And, honestly, this will be kind-of-sort-of-yes-it-is-a-boring-repeat-of-where-i-read...haha. I do blog just as Shel said, pretty much everywhere. It is nothing for me to take my laptop with me to work to try to get a spare moment in to post, or share something on social media (though, mostly I am an epic fail at that :-/...) I blog while sitting and watching TV with my husband at night. I blog while chatting with my friends Bruisa and Sunshine...I blog while getting ready for work, getting ready for bed, or really getting ready to go any-freakin'-where. When people say that blogging is hard, and almost a full time job...they are definitely not a kidding! Whew, I had no idea that it would be so much work, but definitely rewarding with finding people that have the same interests as we do. I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world...and it helps that the hubs is finally on board with my obsessive tendencies, and that it is vital to my sanity and survival. Not kidding about that either!
While I can blog anywhere (except work..for multiple reasons), I mainly do it at home. You'll find me either propped up in the most comfortable bed ever or in the most godawfulugly chair in existence (but it's comfortable!) tapping away on my laptop. Because this is almost like a full time job, I also take this laptop on visits to my parents and have been known to do things on my phone as far away as Costa Rica. I may have a bit of a problem, right?
Tuesday, November 4, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo: Day Four: Why We Blog
Today, you might want to know why we love to blog. And if not, well....read on anyways! *throws confetti*
I think the "why" we blog is pretty much clear with the type of blog we have, but I like this question anyway. We LOVE reading so much that we literally want to share our little pieces of heaven as we find them. It can be daunting to find new books (as we both know very well) and especially new authors today, as money can be tight. I like blogging because with the connections we've made with different authors and bloggers, we now get notified of sales, specials and giveaways and try to share as many of those as possible.
Shel: Honestly I was scared as hell the first few months of this blogging journey (see my early reviews). It was new and even though our audience was negative zero, I didn't want to flop (I did). But as I quit worrying and relaxed a little, I began to enjoy it more and more. I love the talks I've had because of the books we've read. I love when we disagree. I love meeting new writers, discovering works, and introducing people to the books I love. I do it for a living (English teacher) but this is a completely different outlet for me and I've so enjoyed doing it with my one of my closest friends, Court.
Another reason I love to blog, is just simply having an outlet for what is in my mind as I'm reading. Some of the books we read literally make my jaw drop, my heart race, my tears flow (okay, more than some on that one...most!) and I just literally get excited about it, more than almost anything else, when we get to share...or someone said "I read that because you said...(fill in the blank) and I loved it." THAT is by far, one of the most exciting moments of my day. Or, for instance, my cousin texting me at eleven at night a few weeks ago, asking for her next book recommendation. I love that feeling, and if someone enjoys a book as much as I do...it makes me feel very happy. Or, even if they don't. The fact that we can talk about it, as Shel and I do...constantly! Is my favorite thing to discuss! Exactly.
Monday, November 3, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo: Day Three: WHERE WE READ
So, BookBumblings wants ta know Where We Read...and this brings us to day three of the #BookBlogWriMo Challenge! (Bonus for a picture, so a picture you will receive!)
My preferred reading location is probably mostly in my bed, my living room, or my special reading room (which I will show you...it is the worst mess, but is definitely full of my books!). I also love, love, love to read outside...but since we moved to a new duplex the location/style of the porch is not ideal for this pastime at all.
**Special cameo from my buddy Loomis...who seems surprised to see the toy that *he* himself brought in the room as soon as I opened the door. #filterbecauseit'samess**
I think the easier question for me would be...where DON'T I read? I'll read anywhere, unless I'm driving. Seriously. I've always been a reader and always carried a book with me (I mean, shit!, I could read a shampoo bottle and find something interesting about it). So the simple answer for me, is that I read...EVERYWHERE. (Sorry..no pictures because, really...I READ EVERYWHERE).
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Sunday, November 2, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo Day 2: How We Read
Welcome to Day 2 of the #BookBlogWriMo challenge for November. Today is all about #HowWeRead...aka, do we read with a paper or hard back book? e-reader? Computer? Do we highlight and bookmark like it's going out of style, or do we forget (Court does!). Check it out!
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I think this is a great question! How do we read? Well, I think out of the two of us, I probably read the most on my smartphone. I went through (when I first started reading *again* like it was my job) every single app that was available for reading. iBooks, Nook, and Kindle, or Overdrive from the library. What I found was that I loved the format of the Kindle the best, and it helped me find wayyyy more Indie books than any other retailer, which was nice. (AKA, found Colleen Hoover, Jamie McGuire, Jodi Ellen Malpas, and so many more as Indie authors before they were household names).
I still have A LOT of paperbacks, and I tend to get my absolute favorites these days, so that I can eventually get them signed; however, for the most part I read at least 90% of the book on my Kindle or Kindle app.
I also am the world's biggest failure at highlighting and bookmarking. I forget to do it in the moment, and have so many times that I wish I would've bookmarked something and searched high and low to find it in the book again. Not especially helpful if I was looking for one of my favorite swoons, or some really steamy moment that just MUST be read again.
How do you prefer to read? Well, since you asked -- HAHAHAHA. (I'm such a dork, I crack myself up over stupid crap way too often)--I read mostly on my Kindle, at least for the blog. It's portable and has more books than I can probably ever read on it (and much to Court's dismay it's completely unorganized) and it goes with me EVERYWHERE. I took it to Costa Rica on my surfing trip last spring and I fully intend on taking it on all my trips, until I kill it (or replace it).
When I read for my job at school, I almost exclusively read and highlight in textbooks or the paperback copy. I'm not sure why that is, other than it makes my life easier when it comes to point things out to my students..but now that I think about it, maybe it's my subconscious way of separating my work life from my blog life? Hmm.
I do tend to highlight and bookmark things that I like but I rarely incorporate them in my reviews. This is pure laziness on my part...and I've never really figured out a way to integrate them in a way that doesn't seem lame.
So, how do YOU read?
How do you prefer to read? Well, since you asked -- HAHAHAHA. (I'm such a dork, I crack myself up over stupid crap way too often)--I read mostly on my Kindle, at least for the blog. It's portable and has more books than I can probably ever read on it (and much to Court's dismay it's completely unorganized) and it goes with me EVERYWHERE. I took it to Costa Rica on my surfing trip last spring and I fully intend on taking it on all my trips, until I kill it (or replace it).
When I read for my job at school, I almost exclusively read and highlight in textbooks or the paperback copy. I'm not sure why that is, other than it makes my life easier when it comes to point things out to my students..but now that I think about it, maybe it's my subconscious way of separating my work life from my blog life? Hmm.
I do tend to highlight and bookmark things that I like but I rarely incorporate them in my reviews. This is pure laziness on my part...and I've never really figured out a way to integrate them in a way that doesn't seem lame.
So, how do YOU read?

Saturday, November 1, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo 11/1: HISTORY OF THE BLOG
#TheHistoryofUs
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History:
Well, we look back on the start of our blog quite fondly, don't we Shel! Yes, yes we do.We just happened upon each other in about January of 2013, while reading/obsessing/fanatically tweeting one author by the name of A.J. Sand. Shel sent a direct message to Court, and the rest is as they say history. I know..crazy that I did that. I can count on one hand how many people I've contacted that way--I'm so glad I did.
Must Read Books Or Die was officially born on March 24, 2013!
Must Read Books Or Die was officially born on March 24, 2013!
We DM'd for a few week about what we were reading, and decided to read a few of the same titles so we could "ooh"ahh"gasp"squee"rage" about them together. Then, Court said..."Hey, why don't we start a book review, and talk about them there too." And that is the basic premise for how and why we started MustReadBooksOrDie. We just love reading, especially romance, and want to share our love of the books we read with everyone. We have found a community who truly embraces our non-stop obsessive tendencies for reading, and people who only encourage us to do it more...and we find those to be OUR KIND OF PEOPLE! I recall all of this as sort of a whirlwind. When Court has an idea she runs with it and while I was still marveling at the idea of how to do this book blog thing, Court was finding us a blog home, designing it, and dreaming up all the ways in which we could do that. I blinked and here we were. I'm not going to lie--I was so nervous about how all of this would work but turns out, it worked out just fine.
Challenges:
Probably the biggest challenge in our repertoire so far, is figuring out the web design and formatting aspect. We can't tell you how many ways to Sunday we tried to figure out how to "schedule" a post, and got up at the crack of dawn to have things posted on time when we started signing up for blog tours. Oh...how things change. I happened upon that particular gem of knowledge by accident one day...and trust me, accidentally almost publishing a cover reveal that isn't supposed to be shared yet...akin to cardiac arrest (ok, not really, but I swear my heart skipped at the very least, one beat). An ongoing challenge, I think, is time. We have so many ideas, books to read, things we want to do and say and write about and since we both have full time jobs and families to tend to, our ideas sometimes have to be pushed back or cut down to a more manageable thing so that we can maintain our sanity. I think in the coming months and years you'll see this blog continue to morph into more of the dream we have for it--and we think you'll like it. But for now, we'll continue plugging away, taking it day by day, idea by idea.
Triumphs:
Our friends. We found each other. We found friends in authors, and other bloggers, and "readers" just like we are, who are serious champions to helping new authors get their start. There is seriously no feeling like being able to walk into Barnes + Noble, and tell a friend "Wow, I've read almost all of these on this shelf when they were self published." People are being successful as new authors by taking the leap of sharing their heart and soul in word form. The least we can do is help out a little bit on the way with kind, honest, and encouraging words...and LOTS OF SHOUTS OF GLEE when we find a book that absolutely changes our outlook on something.
Absolutely, 100%--finding each other and developing this wonderful friendship has been one of the most rewarding things I've ever experienced. To have a friend to share book moments with and to share my life with (and we've still yet to meet!) is so special. To have her share my love of reading, getting to know and share authors we love, and meet and promote the amazing bloggers we respect and admire...well, there aren't adequate words to express how life changing this has been. Five years ago it would've never crossed my mind that I'd do this...five years from now I hope I can see how far we've grown.
Absolutely, 100%--finding each other and developing this wonderful friendship has been one of the most rewarding things I've ever experienced. To have a friend to share book moments with and to share my life with (and we've still yet to meet!) is so special. To have her share my love of reading, getting to know and share authors we love, and meet and promote the amazing bloggers we respect and admire...well, there aren't adequate words to express how life changing this has been. Five years ago it would've never crossed my mind that I'd do this...five years from now I hope I can see how far we've grown.
Do you blog? Do you READ! Do you read blogs, and find they help with your quest for the next great book hangover? Tell us. We like comments! Yes. We'd love to hear from you.
Monday, October 27, 2014
#BookBlogWriMo
Day One: History of the Blog
Day Two: How We Read
Day Three: Where We Read
Day Four: Why We Blog
Day Five: Where We Blog
Day Seven: #FlashbackFriday: Blog's First Designs
Day Eight: Our Blog Toolkit
Day Nine: Blog Flow
Day Ten: Memes we meme...or used to!
Day Eleven: Top Five Posts
Day Twelve: Advice to Newbie Bloggers
Court found this interesting interactive blogging meme thanks to Shattered Hearts Reviews for the month of November (Think NaNoWriMo, aka, National Novel Writing Month in November where people strive to write an entire novel in just that month!) and it's a twist of bloggy proportions to blog every day (Though, I think we've got that one down pat!)!
And we're excited about it, by just looking back and reflecting on our favorite blog times (DYING right now, with looking back at ghost of blog template past!) and can't wait to get started.
This began at Book Bumblings so check them out too, and join in on the fun! Hopefully you'll learn something right along with us, because we're already thinking about every day!
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